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I don’t know about you, but for a lot of people the notion of success, as it relates to them, remains one of those vague topics that hovers on the edge of consciousness. In my opinion, what a pity! A vast source of energy, focus, motivation, and inspiration remains untapped as long as we don’t have a crystal-clear personal definition of success that illuminates what we’re striving for, what’s ultimately important to us, in our careers and beyond.
How do we arrive at that personal definition of success? Mel Robbins, on Donny Deutsch’s The Big Idea blog, has a great suggestion for creating clarity and focus on a day-to-day basis. She suggests approaching any task, big or small, with a question - “what would being successful at this look like or feel like?” - and then acting the part!
If being a marathon runner is part of your dream of success, don’t wait until you’re in better condition or have more time or have updated your iPod. Think of yourself as a marathon runner today, and eat, exercise, motivate yourself accordingly. Before long that series of little things will add up and you will be a marathon runner. This is just logic….No miracle necessary!
After years of being perplexed by the number of people who wanted to feel successful but couldn’t create a picture of what that would look like, I created a game to help. Players are guided to create their personal big-picture vision and formulate it in concrete terms to complete the sentence, “I know I’m successful when….”
One of the most satisfying experiences for me as Game Facilitator is the moment when someone recognizes that s/he is already living significant portions of their vision. Chances are, they got there by creating the small building blocks Ms. Robbins describes, acting the part of “successful” on a daily basis.
So whether you come to your success vision from day-to-day experience or by devoting some time to creating a big-picture vision, please recognize the vein of gold - fuel for you endeavors, a compass for important decisions and transitions - that you tap into when you “furnish” your personal success vision with the details of your aspirations, dreams, gifts and values.
To your success! Nina Ham